6:28 a.m. 36 degrees, wind SSE 0 mph. Sky: pink in the south, pale blue in the east; at slightly less than half, the moon hollows-out. Horn buds, a silver, shiny COVID mask . . . an old-man-in-the-moon mask; ideal for astronomers. Sprawling ground fog flows through the lowlands like a snake. Permanent streams: merrily rolling along, the same as yesterday and the day before and the day before. Wetlands: dark isles and pale reeds frosted; vanishing fog, fingers of sunlight. An Ansel Adams landscape: intimate yet alluring, a feral potato field brought back by beavers, hemmed between hills and a lake, within the sound of traffic and church bells. A twenty-first-century wildness, which called-out to Linny, all those years ago . . . and I dutifully followed, an only child, watcher of birds, catcher of snakes, the son of a haberdasher and an energetic mother. Pond: surface motionless and empty. Milkweed pods split open, seeds dangling like shredded cotton. Scrapes everywhere.
DOR: gray squirrel en route to the bird feeders
AOR: slug moving at a snail's pace (without the shell).
Blue jay performs a medley of greatest hits: shrill scream, incessant squawk, a cry of a red-shouldered, descending scream of a red-tailed, key-in-the-ignition tooting, pumping water, clear and musical, and an odd assortment of whirrs, chortles, rattles, buzzes, twitters. A female downy woodpecker draws attention to herself, hops along a familiar cherry branch—the chestnut-sided warbler podium, where a trusting warbler sang his heart out last June.
A chorus of red-breasted nuthatches. One picks through lichen on a pine limb. Then, he investigates the end of a busted branch. Flies to the ground for a piece of grit. Flies back to limb. To lichen. To the stub. To ground. Repeats steps one through three. It can't make up its mind. A forlorn robin in an apple tree, surrounded by red-withered apples.
A pileated calls, a heartfelt laugh. On New Year's morning 1978, a pileated was our New Year's bird, the first bird Linny and I saw that year, undulating above the deep snow of a South Strafford meadow. Since 1978, New Year’s birds mostly blue jays and chickadees. Several times a junco. Once a redpoll. This morning, of all mornings, I could use a chickadee.
Linny died twenty years ago today. Seems like yesterday. The melting and congealing of time: slows down, speeds up, inverts, minutes seem like hours, hours like minutes, eventually to vanish into the dark void of memory loss. Linny asked me in the wee hours of November 8, 2000: who won the Bush-Gore election? Political symmetry (if she only knew what we’re embroiled in now). Closer to dawn, she announced, brimming with confidence, I know the boys will be alright. In no small part because of the foundation she had built. Casey was thirteen. Jordy would be five the next day; she planned his birthday party from the sofa, flat on her back and close to death. A celebration delivered by Casey and a half-dozen friends. I stood by, watching the whimsey of chickadees, tears in my eyes.
I want to tell Linny that the boys are stellar, a tribute to her legacy, that our friends pitched in. That her sisters stood by us. That merlins nest along the Ompompanoosuc River and bald eagles the Connecticut River, but that sadly, as the world warms, her beloved Alpine Gardens withdraws from Mount Washington, flower by flower. I want to tell her she was the cortex of the household, the soother, and the master planner, that I'm still here, keeping track of her valley. That rakish-faced owls still haunt the night. That a merlin just harried a blue jay in the compost pile . . . and jay flew away, bread in its bill, squealing.
I lit the yahrzeit candle this morning. Now, I need a chickadee.
Watching My Friend Pretend Her Heart Isn’t Breaking by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer
On Earth, just a teaspoon of neutron star
would weigh six billion tons. Six billion tons
equals the collective weight of every animal
on earth. Including the insects. Times three.
Six billion tons sounds impossible
until I consider how it is to swallow grief—
just a teaspoon and one might as well have consumed
a neutron star. How dense it is,
how it carries inside it the memory of collapse.
How difficult it is to move then.
How impossible to believe that anything
could lift that weight.
There are many reasons to treat each other
with great tenderness. One is
the sheer miracle that we are here together
on a planet surrounded by dying stars.
One is that we cannot see what
anyone else has swallowed.
I share this, remembering my mother, and hoping you find your chickadee today. What a gift your Linny was to you and her sons and this earth.
“Kaddish,” by David Ignatow
Mother of my birth, for how long were we together
in your love and my adoration of your self?
For the shadow of a moment, as I breathed your pain
and you breathed my suffering. As we knew
of shadows in lit rooms that would swallow the light.
Your face beneath the oxygen tent was alive
but your eyes closed, your breathing hoarse.
Your sleeping was with death. I was alone
with you as when I was young
but now only alone, not with you,
to become alone forever, as I was learning
watching you become alone.
Earth now is your mother, as you were mine, my earth,
my sustenance and my strength,
and now without you I turn to your mother
and seek from her that I may meet you again
in rock and stone. Whisper to the stone,
I love you. Whisper to the rock, I found you.
Whisper to the earth, Mother, I have found her,
and I am safe and always have been.